'Umar b. Al-Khaṭṭāb رضي الله عنه said:
“If you see that someone has slipped, correct him, pray for him & don't help Shaytaan against him (by insulting him).”
[Tafseer al-Qurtubi, v. 15, p. 256]
'Umar b. Al-Khaṭṭāb رضي الله عنه said:
“If you see that someone has slipped, correct him, pray for him & don't help Shaytaan against him (by insulting him).”
[Tafseer al-Qurtubi, v. 15, p. 256]
Musa (alayhissalam) used to often say in his Du'a:
ุงููููููู ูู ูููููู ููููุจูู ุจูุงูุชููููุจูุฉู ุ ููููุง ุชูุฌูุนููู ููููุจูู ููุงุณูููุง ููุงููุญูุฌูุฑู
Oh Allah, soften my heart with tawbah (repentance), and do not make my heart hard as a rock.
[Ibn Rajab al-Hanbali (rahimahullah) in Jami' al-Uloom wal Hikam, no. 326 or 20/437]
“He estado tanto tiempo vacía, apática e indiferente que he perdido el miedo a sentir demasiado. He perdido el miedo a la intensidad, a desbordarme. No temo sentirme triste y mentalmente agotada. No tengo miedo de dejar que mis sentimientos fluyan, me abracen y salgan por los poros. Aunque duela. No quiero evitar la tristeza y fingir que no existe cuándo me está consumiendo por dentro. No quiero luchar contra ella a capa y espada, ahogándome en el intento. Porque aunque duela, hace parte de sentirme viva. Hace parte de mis experiencias, de mis recuerdos. Está bien permitirme estar mal, porque sé que entendiendo cómo me siento, tendré un escalón más para volver a estar mejor.”
— Recovecos de mi alma
Lut's (Lot) wife didn't listen to his instructions
- Even great partners can be betrayed by their spouses
Adam needed Hawa (Eve) to enjoy living in the Garden
- The need for love and intimacy is not codependency
Asiyah was killed by her husband, Pharoah
- Your abusive partner is not your fault
Maryam's greatest honor was being the mother of Esa
- Being a single mother is not a disgrace
Ayyub A.S battled sickness and repeated trials
- Chronic illness is nothing to be ashamed of
Nuh's A.S own son rejected him
- Effective parenting doesn't guarantee successful children
Zakariya A.S struggled to have a child
- Infertility isn't a sign that God is displeased with you
The Prophet Muhammad (saw) was an orphan, a widower, and had to grieve the loss of his own children
- The best of mankind experienced these trials too
In your broken heartedness, remember that you are not alone "Even if you have no one, you are in the care of ALLAH"